Dear Mabel…from mama

Dear Mabel–

Dad­dy trav­eled to Chica­go this week (for just one day). You and I had so much fun, I had to write Dad­dy a let­ter to tell him all the things you learned. Dad­dy loved his let­ter so much, he asked that I write more. Today, I write one to you!

Cur­rent­ly, you are want­i­ng to take only one nap/day, but not quite ready to get there. I’ve had to put you to bed at 5:30 pm because you’re so tired. You’re sleep­ing at 9 am for 30 min­utes, and then 45 min­utes to 1 hour at Noon or 1 o’clock. Mama’s goal is to push your nap back to about 11, and you’ll hope­ful­ly sleep 2 hours once we get there. We’ll have so much fun when you’re down to one nap/day, since we’ll get to go places that require longer dri­ving (like mama’s co-ops. wheeeeeee!) 

Late­ly mama has been decid­ing how to direct you and help you grow and flour­ish in your own lit­tle body, in our home. Dad­dy even gave mama a bless­ing to help mama clear her head. Mama is feel­ing very peace­ful about set­ting up a Montes­sori-style home. In fact, mama is super excit­ed to do it!! I’ve made lists and lists and lists (I got that from Grand­ma…) of how we’re going to get there! Already, you are sit­ting at your own lit­tle din­ing table in your own Mabel-sized chair drink­ing out of a glass and eat­ing off your plate. Next up, sil­ver­ware! It’s been fun to have you help me pre­pare your food. When you’re ready, Mama will teach you how to wash your dish­es and put them away. Montes­sori can be summed up: “Teach me to do it Myself” And dear Mabel, that’s what mama and dad­dy will do!

We went to the park (as we do near­ly dai­ly), but your favorite activ­i­ty was occu­pied (the swing), so I placed you in the sand box. The sand box intrigues you, but you’re more inter­est­ed in the things that don’t belong there. Such as, the dead wasp that you were intent to dis­sect. Next came the lit­tle green worm (cater­pil­lar?) that you des­per­ate­ly want­ed to put in your mouth. Mama tried and tried to show you that it was alive, and to observe it. Appar­ent­ly the fla­vor of it is all you could think about. Mama gave him a new home in the grass. Then, your swing was free, so mama pushed you in the swing for about 30 min­utes. Pure bliss.

You adore your friend Lex­ie and offer her hugs each time you see her. Lucky for you, she knows sign-lan­guage as well, so you two can share signs. Lex­ie asso­ciates you with “table” and signs “table” when ask­ing to see you. You adore play­ing in the water with her at her house, or eat­ing pan­cakes at your house. No mat­ter the activ­i­ty, you two trade places fol­low­ing each oth­er around. For being 8 months dif­fer­ent in your ages, you two are quite a pair!

The last few days, mama has real­ized that you might be ready for potty-training…at least the begin­ning stages. You are well-aware when your body has passed some­thing, and call to mama. When time to change your cloth dia­per, you love to hus­tle up your stairs and lay on your mat. You are a won­der­ful­ly obe­di­ent girl, so eager to help mama and learn. Very appro­pri­ate for the Montes­sori teach­ing style!

You have a sin­gle book that you will *only* read with your dad­dy. It is called “My First 100 Words”; you sign “more” con­stant­ly when dad­dy reach­es the last page. When mama reads it to you, you quick­ly become dis­in­ter­est­ed. When mama sits at the com­put­er, you call sign to mama that you want to be on my lap—over and over. Some­times when dad­dy comes to get you in the morn­ings, you ask for mama. When dad­dy leaves for work, you ask for dad­dy. Upon hear­ing “bye,” not only do you wave “bye-bye,” but offer kiss­es to all who will bow their cheek to you. Even peo­ple we’ve just only met. You are very lov­ing and offer hugs to many who stand still long enough—although, you did tack­le your friend Evie to the ground while she was try­ing to evade your hug. You won. 

Your favorite toys are stack­ing things and opening/closing either mama’s or dad­dy’s wallet—after emp­ty­ing them com­plete­ly. I ful­ly blame you for my miss­ing tem­ple recommend…ha! 😉 We are lucky that Lex­ie’s mama, Mrs. Mueller, is my dear friend, and a for­mer kinder­garten teacher. She offers lots of sug­ges­tions and advice of new fun things for us to do. Includ­ing your swim­ming lessons—from which you just grad­u­at­ed!! You have real­ly tak­en to the water, and could­n’t be hap­pi­er in there. Your teacher, Miss Karen, is con­stant­ly sur­prised at how calm you swim under­wa­ter and how much excite­ment you show for each new activity.

Dear Mabel…we are so grate­ful you have joined our home. We hope to always lead you, guide you, and walk beside you in righteousness.

Love, mama and daddy.


Mabel on the swing set

Mabel and mama are mak­ing sure to take advan­tage of the short sum­mers in Min­neapo­lis by hit­ting the park almost every day. Mabel’s favorite activ­i­ty? Why the swings of course. She grins from ear to ear and demands “more” when she’s tak­en down. Very fun. 


PS. Mama made the bonnet


Mabel & Lexie

Mabel’s lit­tle friend Lex­ie invit­ed her to a lit­tle sum­mer fun at her house. Mabel seemed to enjoy it. 


You scream, I scream!

Mabel screams for ice cream! 

These are pho­tos of Mabel’s first encounter with the blessed nec­tar of life. At first, she was appre­hen­sive. What is this cold, yet melty good­ness? Then, she pounced. 


Happy Mama’s Day

Oh, what a won­der­ful mama’s day!! I have been hop­ing for a com­bo for a while, look­ing at garage sales, craig’s List, con­sign­ment, etc. Appar­ent­ly I’m too slow. I kept hear­ing repeat­ed­ly “it already sold.” *sigh* Such a great thing, this Learn­ing Tow­er. My friend Mandy (stay-at-home mama, for­mer Kinder­garten teacher) is my life-line to these great things. I’ve been cov­et­ing one for a while. 

Then, I thought the KitchenAid Glass Mix­ing Bowl would be the best companion…since Mabel loves to see things hap­pen­ing inside the mix­er bowl. Boy, was I right! 🙂

We gave it a whirl today, and I found this lit­tle sce­nario after retriev­ing the choco­late chips.

P.S. This is Mabel’s new out­fit I made her 🙂